Chapter 67 · Quick Fire
Difficult Conversations: holding the room when stakes are high
Question 1 / 10Press 1–4
What's a contrasting statement, and when do you use it?
- 1Stating the opposite of what you mean
- 2A repair move when someone has heard you wrong: contrast what you don't mean with what you do mean — "I don't think X; I do think Y"
- 3Comparing two unrelated topics
- 4A way to avoid commitment
Habit loop
- Learn
Finish this step. - Plan
Decide the next sitting. - Do
Carry one part into action. - Reflect
Log what changed. - Teach
Pass one point on.